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How can I get other swingers to send me their pictures? My wife and I are swingers (to those that don't approve: I don't care. It works for us). We are on a number of dating sites that cater to our lifestyle. We are an attractive couple and thus have more options than many of the more average looking swingers have. Unfortunately, it seems that most swingers are not that attractive -- especially the guys. Many of the men are older and fat with attractive wives. My wife is not thrilled by this aspect of the lifestyle.
We have found that getting pictures from other swingers can be a chore. Often, we believe that it's because they are not attractive and don't want us to see what they look like until we've gotten to know them a little -- at which point (they hope) personality will make up for the fact that they're 350 pounds. It won't.
However, we're sure that there are also some attractive couples we're missing out on because they are not sending pictures either. We mention that pictures are really important to us, and that we are not looking for perfection (we have gotten together with fives) but we really want to see what a couple looks like, otherwise we just don't reply after the second or third email.
We hint, we ask. We don't get pictures.
All this is just to ask you, the answers public, if you can think of creative and upbeat ways to get people to send us pictures of their faces. There are a number of people that complain about all the things they don't like about other couples in the lifestyles, and we just don't want to start down the road of sounding like them. We keep our profile upbeat and happy.
So, any ideas?
NOTE TO THE JUDGEMENTAL: Just live and let live. I know there is likely to be a number of judgemental people out there that can't handle the fact that we're swingers. I don't judge you, so please don't judge me. Isn't that in the bible or something? Oh yeah, Matthew 7:1. You aren't going to change my ways, nor me yours. OK? | You're so stuck on the "attractive" judgement, you're failing to see what others think of you: A pic collector.
We've been swingers for five years, and we NEVER send anyone pics. If they can't figure out what we look like from the pics on our profile, too bad for them.
If you're not on a swingers website that has pics, time to change.
Joe: Reported. Have a nice day. Too bad you're not a real swinger. | Where/How can I find out about swingers parties in Chicago? I'm a single professional recently relocated to Chicago. I was watching an episode of Nip/Tuck the other day (S01E07) and they have this party called "the scene" which is a swingers party (in which they have to send pictures to be admitted or something)...Maybe that is entirely fictional but I doubt it, I know swingers exist and I would very much like to learn more about it. Can anybody point me in the right direction, or even where to look?
Thank you | | Craigslist | What is your, detailed, description of SWINGERS? I posted this question because many people gave me a hard time about not knowing the true definitions of swinging... Therefore, I guess, I am confused as to whom is or is not a swinger.
In your opinion. what makes a couple swingers?
Please, give me the all encompassing picture of what qualifies one as a swinger. | | swingers are people who have non-committed sexual relationships. the term "swingers" are usually applied to couples who are in committed relationships and agree to have an open sexual relationship with others. | Find pictures of bakersfield gay and bisexual lovers? local swingers, find pictures and party locals | | ok and what are you going to do with them!!! | What is the proper etiquette for turning down possible swingers? Recently, my husband was at work and needed his lunch dropped off. I took his lunch down there and one of my husband's supervisors started hitting on me blatantly in front of my husband. I was polite, but short with him, all the while trying to figure out what was going on. For the next few days at work, the supervisor kept telling my husband how attractive I was until my husband had to politely tell him not to comment on me anymore (he said it in stronger words than that.)
So... a few days later, my husband needed to pick something up for work at his supervisors house where he lives with his wife and infant daughter. The supervisors wife had just had some kind of surgery on her upper abdomen and wasted no time in showing my husband her scar and "accidentally" flashed her breasts. She played it off and, according to my husband, seemed to have done it on purpose. In addition to the flashing, she was using innuendos in her conversations with her husband and mine while he was there. My husband came home immediately and told me what had happened. Is it obvious that they are possible swingers and are trying to interest my husband and I? Or am I nuts? My husband and I have talked about their intentions (not about swinging) and it seems obvious. My husband and I are not swingers and wouldn't consider doing anything along those lines. But, this man is my husband's supervisor and being in the military, we cross paths with these people at functions and events often. How do we make it clear that we are not interested in an unoffensive and subtle way that will get the point across. I'm tired of being uncomfortable and I don't want to be rude, for my husband's sake. If the military weren't in the picture I would be rude and shoot these people down without any qualms... Help me... | I don't think they are real swingers, I think they are wannabe swingers. Real swingers don't hit on non-swingers because they know the chance of getting with them is almost none. There is greener grass with real swingers. So going after non-swingers and trying to "convert" them is not only a waste of time and energy. You'd never, ever know a real swinger if you met them because they don't publicize their sex life anymore than you do.
These people just seem like uncouth, rude and all around icky people. I'd tell them that you're flattered that they are flirting with you two this way, but it's not going to go anywhere with you and you'd appreciate it if they'd stop because it's making you and your husband uncomfortable. | How to take a picture with Polaroid Big Swinger? i tried taking a polaroid picture with Polaroid Big Swinger with film FP-100C. But when i pressed the shutter of the picture, and after i exposed it, the picture is just a blank piece of polaroid. | Make sure that you can hear the shutter click. Could be a problem with the shutter. Also, make sure you are seeing the "YES" from the photometer before you take the shot.
Double check the the exposure slider, you do not want it set to "3000" or "B&W". | My parents are swingers.? Last summer my sister, parents, and I went to my parents friends house. They had been hanging for a month or so and Dad said that he worked with the male. Their friends was a couple and they had 1 son. We went over to their house a good bit, but gradualy my sister and I stopped going and my parents went on their own.
One day my sister and I were looking through my mothers phone because I liked to look at people's pictures on their phone, yet my mother did not know we were looking at them. We discovered many nude pictures of her and the father of the family who they said they were friends with. Immeditly my sister and I thought that she was cheating on my father. We read on her text messages they called each other baby and boyfriend and girlfriend. This upset us, but we did not tell our father for a couple on months. On thanksgiving last year they mintioned that over the weekend we were going to the moutains with their friends. This upset my sister a good bit to the point where she started to cry because she thought that my mom was cheating on my dad with the people we were going to vacation with. My sister texted my father and said mom is cheating on you. He excused her from the vacation and said that when we come back he will tell her the story.
I did not say a word.
My dad took her out to eat and told her that when we were little he had cheated on my mom [which we already knew, he just didn't know we knew] and almost never came home. When he finally came around, it took a long time for her to trust him again. They said that having sex with their friends lets them trust each other somehow. But he denied that they were swingers. He told my sister not to tell me.[my sister told me all of this because I already knew something was going on]
To this day my parents do not know that I know about their double life. Since last year, we have discovered their accounts on two swinger websites, that the father of the friends that dad claimed he worked with did not work with him at all, and stuff like that.
My sister is a college student and hangs out with her friends at nights and weekends but lives here. I expect her to have fun! But my parents are always gone. I havent seen my dad in a week or two, they spend the night at their friends house all the time. I am home alone constantly. I hate it, not that they are swingers but my parents being gone constantly. I mean sure Im 14 but still I miss them. And knowing what they are doing..... does anyone know how I can just relax and get over it? Or should I get over it? Should I tell them that I know and get it off my cheast or just leave it be?
Thank you. | | yes tell them.... | Swingers and swing clubs sociology project. Any ideas? I have a huge final project for my Sociology class, the topic is swingers and swing clubs. I need to find a way to interview/contact swingers and I have no idea how to do that because all the clubs are 21+ (I'm 19). Since the topic is so unfamiliar to me, I'm a little stuck and don't know what to do or how to do it.
It needs to be a really solid and professional project, with a final presentation and a lot of creativity. (Ex. interviews, pictures, videos, etc.)
Any ideas would be helpful, anything creative that would make the project better.
Thanks a bunch.
I live in Miami, if that's worth anything. | | Good luck. | I just found out my parents are swingers!?!? A few years ago, when I was about 12, I needed pictures of me as a baby for a school project. So I was going through our albums and found pictures of my parents naked with another couple. What was most disturbing was that these people were our family friends and I knew them very well. I confronted my dad on it and he said that they were just doing "massages". I didn't totally buy it, but I went along.
Yesterday I saw a question about swingers and it hit me that that's what my parents could have been. So I asked my mom and she admitted it. My parents are now divorced. My dad is an EXTREMELY sexual person ( answers.yahoo.com/question/index;… ) and she felt forced to do it. I am so disturbed right now, especially since this couple was so close to me. Can anyone make me feel any better about his? | I'm really sorry that you had to stumble upon this, especially since things didn't work out for them. Please understand that your parents are not sick, perverted or deranged. They were experimenting with something and, as happens to many couples to dabble with swinging, it backfired. As a swinger (and a woman) myself, I can see right away where they went wrong: no one should ever have felt coerced into something like this, AND it's never a good idea to get involved with close friends. I'm guessing these friends are quite so close anymore?
What you discovered is akin to walking in on your parents "mid-stroke" while your dad is wearing a chicken suit and your mom is dressed like Colonel Sanders. Disturbing, yes, but not anything that Dr. Phil himself wouldn't recommend if it enriched the marriage. Where they went wrong was a) your Dad not respecting (or maybe not seeing/understanding) your Mom's feelings of ambivalence, and b) your Mom's failure to stand up for herself and TELL your Dad that she was uncomfortable with it.
In any case, this is not your problem, your fault, or really any of your business. If your Mom wants to get things off her chest, she really should talk to someone other than her daughter about it. It's a little difficult to give retrospective sex advice to her given your position in her life. Just weird.
Your parents are adults who had choices to make, and they made them. Not only are they adults, they're just human beings. People screw up all the time. We all have our roles to play as daughters, mothers, fathers, family friends, etc. and we're all on our individual journeys through life, learning as we go. Screwing up as we go! Cut them some slack; I'm sure they're kicking themselves enough for all of you.
I guess what I'm trying to say is, you should realize that your parents have some issues to deal with that they seem to be dealing with poorly. This puts you in a tough spot because there's really not much you can do about it except to tell them that you are very uncomfortable due to their inability to deal with their sh*t. Your Dad's indiscreet obsession with porn is disturbing alright. I don't have a problem with porn, but I do have a problem with the indiscretion AND with the apparent abundance of it. It could point to a porn addiction...which could arise from any number of things.
Do you have a trusted friend outside of the family with whom you could discuss your concerns? It sounds like maybe your parents could use some professional intervention and/or therapy.. | Wife's pictures continued? After showing some of my friends her pictures. She was mad at frist then she liked the idea. Some of you wrote back and said we should try a threesome but not with a friend. You said we should find a stranger at a bar. So we talked about it. When we were thinking of a bar we were nervious we might run into some one we know. We talked about going to a swingers club. Are single men allowed to go to a club or is it just couples?? Question for the women would you try it?? Get all dressed up sexy and go to a club
and like the idea of other men looking at you?? And the men how many of you would like to see your wife dress up in a very sexy outfit and dance with other men? We have been married 25 years and just looking to spice up our life a little. Is this wrong of us?? | | OMG! I can't believe people like you exist in this world! |
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